What can Millennials (and we) Learn from Marshmallows?

Imagine you are four years old.  You are sitting in a room with a friendly adult who puts a marshmallow on the table in front of you.  He tells you that you may eat the marshmallow right now, or if you can wait until he returns from a quick errand, he will give you another marshmallow and you may eat two.  What would you do? This is exactly what the researchers at Stanford University did in the late 1960’s and early 1970’s to study delayed gratification, a form of self-control.  The initial … [Read more...]

Taking Leadership to Heart – Success Stories

Do you remember the ending of The Titanic with Kate Winslet and Leo DiCaprio?  Did you think Rose went to sleep and dreamed she saw Jack extending his hand or did she die and see him?  My friend and I saw it together and one of us thought she died while the other thought she was dreaming. We interpret things our own way.  For that reason, I like to ask leaders their interpretation of emotional intelligence (EQ).  This month’s featured leader in Taking Leadership to Heart, Tricia Dempsey, the … [Read more...]

Taking Leadership to Heart – Success Stories

This month in the EQ Leaders Series we are featuring Tom Darrow, Founder and Principal at Talent Connections, LLC and Career Spa and 2015-2016 Chair, and SHRM Foundation Board of Directors. When I mentioned to Tom that I wanted to spotlight him for his EQ, he responded, “I’ve been asked how I’m so GQ but never about my EQ.”  If you know Tom, you know he is always ready with a witty - and often self-depreciating -  comeback.  Humor is a great EQ skill and one that would benefit all … [Read more...]

Taking Leadership to Heart – Success Stories

Our first leader to be featured in this 'Taking Leadership to Heart' series is the Kabbagehead, Rob Frohwein.   His title is not just a play on words; it’s part of the Kabbage culture. There are no titles at Kabbage unless you are the head of a functional area.  Then you get to be the ‘Head’ of that area.  The philosophy behind no titles is that Kabbage is a community – a family if you will – of individuals from all walks of life.  All races and religions, including atheist and agnostic, are … [Read more...]